6/2/2023 0 Comments Aquarius aloofStrengths: Progressive, original, independent, humanitarian. Humanitarian and intellectual, but hate routine and predictability. They bring change wherever they go and will help to improve any condition around them. A few facts about Aquarius.Īquarius are inspiring and visionary. I probably lose some of my warmth when I feel it isn’t safe to be vulnerable and/or authentic, or when I sense someone is inappropriately crossing my boundaries.What better way is there to personalise your cards than with a zodiac reference your recipient is sure to love? This fabulous free digi stamp is available to print as many times as you wish, so have fun and see how many different ways you can style this fun Aquarius stamp. I think my Moon square Neptune/Mercury/Jupiter (in Scorpio) makes me wear my emotions on my sleeve much of the time. My own Aquarius placements (Moon/Vertex/Chiron) have a hard time carrying off aloof – even with people I dislike, I try to remain polite anything less seems dehumanizing. No hard feelings though, I still think she’s a very nice person and I feel confident she feels the same about me! I sensed she’d realized (as had I) that although we liked one another, we didn’t have enough in common for a long term friendship. We got together once or twice and emailed back and forth a number of times, then I never heard from her again. Not that long ago, I was approached on the street by an Aquarius who’d just moved to my town – she saw me giving directions to a stranger and thought I was someone she should know. I put myself out to say hello and chat with my new neighbors, but in truth I haven’t any interest in developing relationships with them. Last summer I moved to a senior building with 100 apartments in it, and I’m noticing that 6 months later, the only friend I have made here is the neighbor from my old complex who was a friend and helped me move here. On the other hand, I myself have a Venus-Uranus-Saturn conjunction, and I’ve been seeing lately how I can seem open and friendly and yet have walls 10′ thick. (Like tell their wildest secrets to the waitress or get the store clerk to spill her life story. I’m also fairly formal, and when I go out with friends who have something in Aquarius, I find them to be what I’d call innapropriately friendly with perfect strangers. As a Cancerian, I am often befuddled by Aquarians, because they seem so INTERESTED in you when you meet them and so much like my new BFF, and then they disappear for all time, so I’ve had to learn time and time again that they don’t mean anything by it. If you’d warned me you were coming this morning, I would have worn my armory,” she told him with chilling aloofness. How do you respond to aloofness in other people?.Can you be friendly and aloof at the same time?.Have you ever snubbed someone as payback for snubbing you?. When do you get aloof? What’s the trigger?.It just turns the temperature down on an already icy world.ĭoes anyone remember that old dating advice to act like you’re not interested? Who can resist what we “can’t” have? Pretending not to care hasn’t ever solved a thing. I use aloofness to protect my feelings, to keep from getting hurt. Maybe you create it as a barrier when a fellow passenger takes the seat next to you on the plane or toward a family member who really irks you. Maybe it arises when you see an old classmate who mistreated you back in the day. We all have Aquarius in our chart so it would be unlikely that one of us hasn’t had an attitude of aloofness toward at least one person at some time in our life. Yes, Aquarius can be quite unsociable even though it’s one of the social (air) signs. It underscores more negative Aquarian traits like cold, detached, unfeeling and unsociable. Aloofness is one of the Water Bearer’s less charming traits.
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